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In this issue:

  • Internet marketing: “The Biggest Mistake that business network builders make”

  • Words of wisdom

  • Personal development: Uncovered: 11 Secret Steps to Create a New Life for you!

  • More words of wisdom

  • Personal development: Creating Positive Thoughts and Beliefs

  • Coming up soon

  • Our philosophy

 

Internet marketing - “The Biggest Mistake that business network builders make – before they even get started”

 

(OR how to flush money down the toilet while insisting you know best!)

 

by Martin Allsop

 

You’ve probably noticed that with any new phenomenon people get obsessed with the “newness”, the “paradigm shift”.

 

Social networking is no different.

 

Yet the fundamentals remain. Technology, ways of communicating and doing business may change but human nature and business basics don’t.

 

Customers still want value for money and their needs satisfied.

 

Entrepreneurs still look for opportunities worth investing cash, time and energy in.

 

Businesses still require sales, cash flow and profit.

 

It’s the same game played a different way.

 

The classic trap

So what is the classic trap that snares business and network builders in the emerging social networking economy?

 

They are not clear on their mission

 

They’re not crystal clear about where they’re going.

 

Some are just obsessed with some biz-op that somebody’s sold them. Important here is that although they’ve been sold on “your own business”, “financial independence” and “freedom” this isn’t their business at all.

 

They’re part of a bigger “scheme”, “pyramid” or “system” They have to operate with someone else’s rules, structure and system.

 

Others just haven’t thought out what they want to achieve beyond – “I want to…”

  • Work from home

  • Build a business

  • Make money

Of course, even with biz-ops, it’s possible – even vital – to clarify your mission and purpose.

 

Problem is - people haven’t been trained - so they don’t know how to go about identifying their mission in a way that could really make them money. So they waste money and miss out on attracting prospects because they’re driving blindfold.

 

Every business (and in my view every person) needs to identify their mission. They need to be able to answer the question:

 

“What are you here for?”

 

They need to do the job properly, professionally.

 

And they need to do it before they do anything else.

 

It could be the most important (and profitable) decision they ever make.

 

As that wily old diplomat Dr Henry Kissinger once said:

 

“If you do not know where you are going, every road will get you nowhere”

 

 

 

 

© Martin Allsop 2008. Martin is a personal development and NLP trainer, management consultant and entrepreneur. Having turned his attention to internet marketing and Web 2.0 he grew a Facebook network of 5,000 friends in under two months and now has a total network of 9,000. In his e-zine he introduces information and opportunities to enable you to develop your full potential. You have permission to reproduce this article in whole or in part provided you include this signature box. Sign up at www.martinallsop.com  Email: martin@martinallsop.com

 

 

“Words of wisdom”

 

“If you know how the brain works you can set your own directions. If you don't, then someone else will."

Richard Bandler (NLP co-founder)

 

 

“Uncovered - 11 Secret Steps to Create a New Life for you!”

 

by Martin Allsop

 

Stop! And ask yourself this question (if you dare).

 

How often do you feel or think

  • “There must be more to life than this!”

  • There’s something missing

  • I’d like to consider doing something different

  • I’m frustrated or dissatisfied

  • I wish I could take control of my life

  • I want a life worth living

Be honest – you probably feel like this at times, don’t you?

 

I’ve been there, believe me. There was a time when “I didn’t know where to turn”.

 

My life hit crisis point. My marriage was faltering on the rocks, and I was unhappy in my career. And, probably like you, doing the daily grind – commuting, working 9 - 5 (often later!) - earning a pay check, but going to sleep at night and waking up every morning to the same nagging question:

 

“Is this all life has to offer?”

 

Something was missing but I couldn’t figure out what it was.

 

Then I discovered my father was going to die.

 

Suddenly, I recognized my own mortality. I got to see how precious life is and how short it can be. I didn’t know where to turn and that’s when I said to myself:

 

“There must be more to life than this!”

 

At times like this you need a helping hand. A very dear and valued friend took time and was able to open the door to an exciting world of personal development.

 

I discovered a way out. I learned that it was down to me to make my own life what I wanted it to be. And the central key to it all was creating my own direction – my own personal mission.

 

I changed career, worked for myself – becoming my own boss. I created the relationship life I wanted. I found peace of mind inside. And material success came too – the big house, the nice car.

 

I’m not going to pretend it’s always been plain sailing. Life has dealt me some major blows too. Yet through the good times and the bad I always knew I could handle it. I have a way of setting my direction and a way to follow it.

 

You can do it too.

 

It works.

 

There’s more to tell than I can fit into this space but the whole thing is available to anyone – yes, that includes you - if you want take it on.

 

To find out more visit www.careerchangecourse.com

 

If you go there now you may discover what you've needed and wanted for so long.

 

 

 

 

© Martin Allsop 2008. Martin is a personal development and NLP trainer, management consultant and entrepreneur. Having turned his attention to internet marketing and Web 2.0 he grew a Facebook network of 5,000 friends in under two months and now has a total network of  9,000. In his e-zine he introduces information and opportunities to enable you to develop your full potential. You have permission to reproduce this article in whole or in part provided you include this signature box. Sign up at www.martinallsop.com  Email: martin@martinallsop.com

 

 

“Words of wisdom”

 

"To find our calling is to find the intersection between our own deep gladness and the world's deep hunger.”

Frederick Buechner

 

 

Creating Positive Thoughts and Beliefs

 

How to Replace Negative Subconscious Beliefs with Positive Self-Talk

© Judy H. Wright- Artichoke Press

 

If you’re on your way to building self-confidence, it’s possible you’re holding yourself back. We all face obstacles on the way to our goals, but sometimes we don’t realize that one of those obstacles can be ourselves.

 

Negative Thought Patterns

 

Your subconscious speaks to you even though you may not be aware of it. Negative self-talk and negative beliefs can really hold you back when building self-confidence. First, do you recognize any of these beliefs? If you’re thinking any of these things about yourself, maybe it’s time to make a change.

  1. I don’t feel worthy to be successful.

  2. As a child, my parents and other adults told me that I couldn’t do it. I still believe them.

  3. It’s a scary world out there and I need to be careful.

  4. Who do I think I am, some big shot?

  5. I have tried before and failed. What if I fail again?

These are all self-deprecating thoughts and beliefs that don’t encourage self-confidence.

 

Use Positive Thoughts Instead

 

To be confident, you must be able to replace those negative beliefs with positive, self-affirming thoughts. If you regularly remind yourself that you can achieve your goals, those thoughts will become ingrained in your subconscious, and will soon become beliefs.

 

If you’ve caught yourself thinking any of the above negative thoughts, or something similar, don’t get down on yourself. These are common beliefs that many people hold about themselves. But don’t worry, it is entirely possible to work hard and replace them with positive beliefs!

 

You Can Change Your Thoughts and Actions

 

You are the one who can change, and make your life as wonderful as you want it to be. Your positive self-talk and affirmations will put you back on the road to self-confidence, and soon your goals will be achieved.

 

If you’re wondering where to learn more about avoiding self-deprecating or negative thoughts, Judy H. Wright’s affordable and very effective eBook - Building Self-Confidence With Encouraging Words www.encourageselfconfidence.com is full of tips on how to change negative thoughts into positive ones. You will be so glad you made the decision.

 

 

 

 

Judy H. Wright aka Auntie Artichoke: Author, Parent Educator, International Speaker/Trainer. Full listing of books & classes at www.artichokepress.com. Media contacts: 406-549-9813 Check out www.useencouragingwords.com for a FREE eBook!

 

 

Coming up soon:

  • Social networking success– “Which one of these problems is holding you back?”

  • Internet marketing - “Your competition doesn’t want you to read this”

  • Internet marketing – “What everybody ought to know about selling – and very few actually practice

  • "What does your face reveal about you?"

  • Plus an Internet Megastar writes, The Law of Attraction and How to use Hypnotic Language

 

E-zine philosophy

 

My life mission is to help people realise their full potential and this e-zine supports that mission. The subjects we aim to cover in this e-zine are:

  • Social networking, internet marketing and Web 2.0

  • Personal development, NLP, life change and career change

  • Law of Attraction, meditation and spirituality

  • And anything else that fits with all of the above!

Please feel free to submit your articles, questions, favourite quotations, feedback and any other contributions to martin@martinallsop.com

 

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams”

Eleanor Roosevelt

 

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